Hi!
I’m dating an amazing guy. He’s very sweet and caring. He’s kind of a quiet guy.
We started dating after a friend of his brought me a note he wanted to give me (but then threw away because he was indecisive) that said how much he loved me.
I took it and invited him over to my place. At first he was afraid to touch me and I took the initiative. Lately, he has become more active in this respect and is no longer afraid to just come up and hug me.
Everything would be very good, but I can’t understand one thing. Why does he always shake when we hug? I’ve asked him about it, but he keeps silent or blushes or says “I’m sorry”. I’m very worried about him and his health. Take him to doctor?
We’ve been together for 3 months. 2nd year of university. Same age.
Its a generalization so it does not apply to all but it does stand up in general. There were no creepy women trying to take advantage of me sexually or others like me that were relatively of the same age group but there were tons of guys all set to for women. I even knew some. Heck I was friends with this guy but stopped hanging around him when he jumped on his sisters friend the moment she turned 18. Now its possible my experience is not typical of greater society but I really think it was. At least for the time period I was in. Again though its not an entire gender its a predominance of memebers of a particular sex to behave in a particular way. The real slimy guys where not the majority but they did have sex sooner and more often. A lot of it was just perseverance. If you don’t care about looking like an Ahole you can just run the numbers.
I just love how incels think creepy people trying to prey on children is the kids “getting sexual experience.” STFU with that nonsense.
so it sounds like you think I had something about age difference from your reply despite I went out of my way to point out people of the same age group. I actually did that because creepy older folk, even women, was not unheard of.
So it’s okay to be a creepy predator if your prey is a similar age? You definitely focused on the wrong thing there.