Hi!

I’m dating an amazing guy. He’s very sweet and caring. He’s kind of a quiet guy.

We started dating after a friend of his brought me a note he wanted to give me (but then threw away because he was indecisive) that said how much he loved me.

I took it and invited him over to my place. At first he was afraid to touch me and I took the initiative. Lately, he has become more active in this respect and is no longer afraid to just come up and hug me.

Everything would be very good, but I can’t understand one thing. Why does he always shake when we hug? I’ve asked him about it, but he keeps silent or blushes or says “I’m sorry”. I’m very worried about him and his health. Take him to doctor?

We’ve been together for 3 months. 2nd year of university. Same age.

  • AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I just love how incels think creepy people trying to prey on children is the kids “getting sexual experience.” STFU with that nonsense.

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      1 year ago

      so it sounds like you think I had something about age difference from your reply despite I went out of my way to point out people of the same age group. I actually did that because creepy older folk, even women, was not unheard of.

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        1 year ago

        So it’s okay to be a creepy predator if your prey is a similar age? You definitely focused on the wrong thing there.