• MonkderDritte@feddit.de
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    7 months ago

    Torture? Why people have such trouble with their romantic interest seeing pictures of you naked when you looked totally different?

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      7 months ago

      It’s not actual torture. It’s just embarrassing your kid over something that most people would consider trivial as a form of ribbing them.

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          7 months ago

          You’d sure think so from some of these responses.

          But I do enjoy the person who thinks you need to get consent from a baby to ethically take its picture.

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              7 months ago

              So many of you think babies come out clothed.

              You also have this absolutely ludicrous idea in your heads that having a naked photo of your baby is child pornography. And yet none of you have an example of a parent facing legal repercussions for it. And somehow that doesn’t clue you in that it is, in fact, not child pornography.

              And then there’s the Finnish guy who is telling you all what prudes you are. One of the few sane takes.

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                7 months ago

                Seems like these people are sexualizing babies and then making you seem like the crazy one. It’s kind of insane.

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                7 months ago

                Thanks, please carry on telling me what kind of ideas I have. Forgive me for thinking babies have some rights.

                No one said it’s child porn. It’s just that when parents show off your naked baby pictures it gets uncomfortable for everyone, as many here have expressed.

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                    7 months ago

                    Multiple people have also said it’s wrong to do that, so… carry on cherry picking I guess. But sure, if you think it’s ethical to go around flashing your kids genitals, then carry on I guess. You can’t fix stupid.

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            7 months ago

            CHILD PORN IS ILLEGAL FOR A REASON, CHILDREN CANNOT CONSENT AND YOU ARE BASICALLY CREATING IT WHEN YOU TAKE PICTURES OF YOUR BABY NAKED

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              7 months ago

              If it’s child porn, you show me one single parent who has gotten in trouble for just taking a picture of their baby when it’s naked and showing that picture to their adult child’s partner.

              One single parent.

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        7 months ago

        Wrong, it is a form of mental torture and a violation of your privacy and consent

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          I keep asking for evidence that anyone, anywhere has had lasting mental health damage from this and congratulations, you’re the latest to just assume it happens without evidence.