I’m holding the torch for OkCupid. I’ve met my SOs there. Many queer folk, leftists, likes work reasonably well and you even get free “superlikes” once a week. Messages are free, likes are free.

Nah, I’m an okay person. Sure I do bad things. I make mistakes and have problematic behaviour patterns from time to time. But I am working on it. That’s what makes a “good” or “bad” person. It’s almost never about what you do but mostly about intent and willingness to learn

Oh man. So many and so much. Most of the “comedy” from the 80s, 90s, early 2000s is unwatchable. Older movies are sometimes straight up disgusting. I think it’s a sign for how we grow as a society to be more aware of the sexism, racism and other forms of disrespect that has been sold as comedy or just as “normal”. I consume much more consciously and through a more meta lense. For reference: I’m turning 40 this year

Thank you so much for explaining:)

Thanks! I am quite surprised you used 4.5 and not the 1.4 your lense could do. Is there too much bokeh on 1.4?

Care to share your exif and/or lighting setup?

TL;DR it’s no cause for concern for now. Core is changing speed and direction in cycles.

You know what’s “funny”. Vegans DO fund not only alternatives but also meat subsidies with the taxes on vegan food. For meat to be as cheap as it is, a lot of tax money is going into the industry

all of them combined? They will have a lot of free time then! Amazing!

Or happiness, or desire, or fun, or the taste of fresh fruit, or beauty

Haha how funny!!! Tricking people into sexual acts that they might not want to do is SO FUNNY!!! HAHA

I know how you feel. Don’t worry. I’ve been there, I will be there again. I take meds to not feel this way all the time.

Here’s something trippy: if , you disappeared EVERYTHING would change FOR YOU. The world as you know it would cease to exist. All options all routes …gone.

Am I important for the world? I am the most important person in MY world, because without me, it wouldn’t exist.

Can you get a standing desk? Or one of those sitting balls?

No it’s not. I’m going to be 40 in a few months. A job with lots of movement helps me a lot. Then I go dancing once a week. I need to do more. But I feel fine, I’m not fat and I can still play with the kids

I’m sad that you were made to think this way. That you don’t consider yourself important enough to care about yourself. You never need to “look good for others”. Fuck that BS. I’m going to be 40 this year. These last few years I’ve been really experimenting with my looks. Never standing still, never stopping. You’re not a painting to be put in a frame and stand still. You’re a living, feeling being. Take care

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i’ll save this comment to look back on it when it’s actually time. this all sounds so well-thought-out. i’m really humbled by your thoughtful advice

thanks. i’ll look into that. i know about m.2. good advice :)

well, even 2 years ago, my Pc couldn’t run some games smoothly that eat ram. i was a pretty prolific cities skylines player and that thing EATS ram like nobody’s business.

thanks! I wasn’t sure what to expect when asking this. i feel very old and i’m happy that nobody made fun of me but you’re providing help to me in a kind and generous way! have a good one