Who made this comic? It’s so uncomfortable, I want to see more.
Interested in all things behavioral
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Beebabe@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Instagram Advertises Nonconsensual AI Nude AppsEnglish3·1 year agoThanks, I liked this reply. There is a lot of nuance here.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Instagram Advertises Nonconsensual AI Nude AppsEnglish356·1 year agoSomething like this could be career ending for me. Because of the way people react. “Oh did you see Mrs. Bee on the internet?” Would have to change my name and move three towns over or something. That’s not even considering the emotional damage of having people download you. Knowledge that “you” are dehumanized in this way. It almost takes the concept of consent and throws it completely out the window. We all know people have lewd thoughts from time to time, but I think having a metric on that…it would be so twisted for the self-image of the victim. A marketplace for intrusive thoughts where anyone can be commodified. Not even celebrities, just average individuals trying to mind their own business.
Im ashamed to say I get a visceral reaction from people misusing this word
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Emergency rooms refused to treat pregnant women, leaving one to miscarry in a lobby restroom7·1 year agoIn some states you have to be in the process of “life at risk” before treatment now, or the doctor could be jailed. Lots of articles about this, women nearly dying, losing their reproductive organs, etc. It’s all very dehumanizing.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto A Boring Dystopia@lemmy.world•I think the original name was "dysaesthesia aethiopica."18·1 year agoI remember getting the email letting us know we should arrive early and be ready. I just keep walking in at my exact scheduled time because that’s when I start getting paid. I will bill a single minute of drive time. This is what you get for a .75 annual raise.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Does anyone else notice an uptick of extreme troll accounts?17·1 year agoSome threads have a handful of interactions that seem less than genuine, yes. Usually political and derailing and spoil the thread.
Psyhub is pretty useful for most articles behind a paywall.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Biden Will Try Again to Wipe Out Student Loan Debt for Millions of Borrowers13·1 year agoI will maybe purchase a home before I’m dead. I don’t have a useless degree. In fact, it’s an in-demand field and the salary was considered respectable when I began. Cost of living increases have eaten away at that. But my other choice was to continue to be an assistant at poverty wage. So when the higher salaries and specialties are gatekept by a huge monetary sum you either get a bunch of people with some debt or only the privileged may access knowledge and a brighter future. We have to decide as a society which one we want and stop loathing our neighbors for the system they didn’t create.
I would say you want them to be prepared for people that won’t take no for an answer in a variety of situations. Understanding boundaries and when people will push and manipulate them, this is a real good skill to have in life in general as well. It doesn’t hurt to have a repertoire in self-defense. But yeah, it happens fairly often if you aren’t assertive and often enough even if you are.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•To those with 2+ monitors on your machine: What's your use case, and how much does it actually boost your productivity?1·1 year agoData on one side, assessment write up on the other. Extremely convenient. Not sure if I’m more productive or if I’m just happier.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•California schools forced to compete with fast food industry for workers after minimum wage hike8·1 year agoIn my old district in CT they negotiated a raise from the state minimum to $18.00 with a 32 hour maximum per week, but subsequently removed all the classroom behavioral specialists and therapists to compensate. It’s not a living wage here.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•California schools forced to compete with fast food industry for workers after minimum wage hike581·1 year agoThey really, really don’t like paying support staff. Minimum wage for some of the hardest work I ever did. This includes special education services.
I don’t think a year has gone by since I was a teenager than I wasn’t painfully aware of myself when in public. It was much worse at 11-16 than it is at 37. But…as a small woman I have been followed in parking lots, into stores, recorded (I started recording back) and just the general less threatening long up-down lascivious staring. My rape experience was in my own bed in my own house in my pajamas. The last tinder date I had before I met my spouse tried to force me into their car. So when people give all sorts of sage advice about ways to avoid it…or like many are saying that it’s rare…I also want to say I don’t know any women who haven’t had an uncomfortable experience. I am incredibly mindful that this behavior is no universal among men, but experience shapes my own behavior. Don’t be mad when we cross the street or say no.
Further, saying no behind closed doors is something even more terrifying. Sometimes I’ve had relations I would not have if I thought I was safe to do so.
Just my personal story, mind.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Does everyone buy little things here and there so as to not go insane?9·1 year agoOf course. If this is what reinforces other positive behaviors keep it up. I keep myself on a contract for larger items. (For every month I complete 100 study hours and meet my work hours, I get a pair of converse) :)
I start to feel better and more accepting of my lot at that time …:oh dear…
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Fatal shooting of autistic teen raises concerns about police response to people with mental health issues71·1 year agoI have said this elsewhere but police only seem to know how to escalate situations. As a person in this field calling the police is the last resort in our crisis plan…technically…but I’m afraid if it gets to that point that I can’t handle it, introducing an individual armed and ready to escalate would be a death sentence and I couldn’t live with myself. I make sure my kiddos who have autism know the risk of police using misunderstandings to murder them as well. I hope this cop recieves punishment , but I won’t hold my breath.
Beebabe@lemmy.worldto Movies@lemmy.world•Millennials, Gen-Z Want Original Movies and TV, Not Remakes — SurveyEnglish3·1 year agoRight? We’re middle aged, some grandparents.
Yes, because of the risk of elder abuse. And just being absolutely out of touch with the general population.