• BradleyUffner@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    They are proud in order to fight the shame that conservatives constantly tell them they should feel for existing. It’s a tool for empowerment and fighting back against oppression.

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      1 year ago

      Pride as a reaction to shame is pretty unhealthy, from a mental health perspective. There are people trying to shame everyone for everything. Don’t be fat, don’t be thin, don’t be pretty, don’t be ugly. If everyone was distractingly screaming about their pride for everything they feel ashamed of the world would be obnoxious.

      I think pride as a movement made sense when everything queer was a hidden subculture.

      I feel like that’s past us. There are LGBT pro-hamas groups now. I think we’ve hit peak queer when there are queer activists for groups that would hang them.

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      1 year ago

      So in your opinion, if we reached a level of society where no one is oppressed for their identity/sexuality, would it just cease to “be an idiom”?

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          1 year ago

          “Let’s get there and then decide” is usually not a good way to tackle issues… but I guess it’s not up to us anyway to decide, unfortunately it looks like it’s going to take a long time before that becomes reality.

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            1 year ago

            This is not an issue and it’s not one that needs tackling. It’s literally bored Lemmings taking an argument to the extreme for the sake of being argumentative.

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      1 year ago

      Kinda like how sometimes people of colour tell white people to be ashamed of something their ancestors did ?

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        1 year ago

        I mean, I see a lot of white people chanting pride about what their ancestors did. Do we really need to let that normalize?