I didn’t mean for this post to cause a bunch of arguing in the comments =(
I thought this was just some gallows humor (e.g. “Everything’s lovely except that I have to fear for my safety all the time”) type of shitpost that sounded similar to comments I’ve heard from women irl a lot.
Saying that men aren’t the cause of my problems when I’m talking about women’s experiences with violence against them from men. They aren’t my problems, but nevertheless I care about them.
Yeah? I’m not saying otherwise. I don’t like the default for the term “men” implying murderer. You’re insisting it’s okay to call men murderers because they’re not saying all men are murderers and men have murdered people in the past. I don’t think your mind will change on this and I’m satisfied with everything I’ve said so I’ll leave replies unanswered from here. I’m sure re-reading my original comment with a clear head should help you understand my view better.
Stop misrepresenting my arguments. I’m not saying men are murderers because men have murdered people in the past, it’s because to this day the people responsible for the most murders (and other violent crime toward women) are men. It’s specifically an issue with men!
I’ve also said everything I feel I need to. Frankly, I’m exhausted with you too. I hope you get a sense of perspective.