Mickey7@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 5 days agoHow did a simple phone call become so problematic?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square197fedilinkarrow-up1859arrow-down122
arrow-up1837arrow-down1imageHow did a simple phone call become so problematic?lemmy.worldMickey7@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 5 days agomessage-square197fedilink
minus-squareCrowAirbrush@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up7arrow-down1·4 days agoI feel attacked on a call, i need a breath of air to process and reply to something. On a call i feel so forced to reply faster otherwise i can notice people get annoyed. Which often leads to me saying things i didn’t want to.
minus-squareteslasaur@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down1·4 days agoSounds like you need practice. How do you talk to people when you’re not on the phone?
minus-squareLemzlez@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5arrow-down1·4 days agoYour body language can indicate you’re formulating a response, which makes people less impatient. On a call there’s no body language so if you don’t say anything for a bit people get annoyed.
I feel attacked on a call, i need a breath of air to process and reply to something.
On a call i feel so forced to reply faster otherwise i can notice people get annoyed. Which often leads to me saying things i didn’t want to.
Sounds like you need practice. How do you talk to people when you’re not on the phone?
Your body language can indicate you’re formulating a response, which makes people less impatient.
On a call there’s no body language so if you don’t say anything for a bit people get annoyed.