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minus-squareWild Bill@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up10arrow-down1·edit-28 months agoThat’s why I can’t imagine not* being friends with someone before entering a relationship with them. People who look for romance right off the bat are setting themselves up for failure.
minus-squarerealbadat@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up9·8 months agoI think you a whole word there. Though I think you can have romance at the start and friendship together personally.
minus-squareexplodicle@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·8 months agoFor me at least, I’ve never started being attracted to a person more than a minute after I’ve first met them.
minus-squareChriszz@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·8 months agoI’m weird because I’ve crushed on people days or weeks after first seeing them
That’s why I can’t imagine not* being friends with someone before entering a relationship with them. People who look for romance right off the bat are setting themselves up for failure.
I think you a whole word there.
Though I think you can have romance at the start and friendship together personally.
For me at least, I’ve never started being attracted to a person more than a minute after I’ve first met them.
I’m weird because I’ve crushed on people days or weeks after first seeing them