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minus-squareSeattleRain@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·8 months agoTossing relationships like this away is a sign of narcissism. It’s fine to move on but it’s definitely maladapted to be giddy about it.
minus-squareJackbyDev@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0arrow-down1·8 months agoAmicable divorces are narcissistic?
minus-squareSeattleRain@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·8 months agoI see you didn’t read my post.
minus-squareJackbyDev@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0arrow-down1·edit-28 months agoI literally did. I don’t see why you’d believe people have to mournful about an amicable divorce or why that would be narcissistic otherwise.
minus-squareMaalus@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·8 months agoThey said “tossing away relationships like this is narcissistic” not “amicable divorce is bad”.
minus-squareJackbyDev@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0arrow-down1·8 months agoBut the way this relationship is ending is amicable divorce lol.
minus-squareTheHarpyEagle@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0arrow-down1·8 months agoWhy should you have to be miserable about it? They still have a relationship, it’s just no longer a romantic one.
minus-squareDonkter@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·8 months agoYou don’t have to be miserable, but the misery from leaving someone you love, even if it’s 1000% mutual and friendly is not really a choice, but a natural and healthy emotional reaction.
Tossing relationships like this away is a sign of narcissism. It’s fine to move on but it’s definitely maladapted to be giddy about it.
Amicable divorces are narcissistic?
I see you didn’t read my post.
I literally did. I don’t see why you’d believe people have to mournful about an amicable divorce or why that would be narcissistic otherwise.
They said “tossing away relationships like this is narcissistic” not “amicable divorce is bad”.
But the way this relationship is ending is amicable divorce lol.
Why should you have to be miserable about it? They still have a relationship, it’s just no longer a romantic one.
You don’t have to be miserable, but the misery from leaving someone you love, even if it’s 1000% mutual and friendly is not really a choice, but a natural and healthy emotional reaction.