• Vanth@reddthat.com
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      10 months ago

      Yes.I would rather someone have a respectful, appropriate relationship with an ex versus restraining orders and drama and “she was craaaaazy” type crap.

      If every one of a guy’s exes are “crazy bitches”, it’s saying something about him, not the women he dated.

      Close doesn’t always mean romantic or sexual.

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        10 months ago

        If you have one crazy ex, you have one crazy ex. If you have all crazy exes, you ARE the crazy ex. But if you have no crazy exes but a bunch of relationships that didn’t work out I’d want to make sure you aren’t their crazy ex.

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      10 months ago

      It’s a much bigger red flag if they hate everyone they’ve ever broken up with. That’s just childish. So your shit didn’t work out? Shake hands and walk along. They still have the good traits that made you consider them in the first place.

      • azalty@jlai.lu
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        10 months ago

        Yea sure, but you don’t have to be close to them and still be friends. Just move on