Haven’t had much action lately, and I find myself spending more time on the guy/hook-up apps. Guys are way more forward on giving compliments and swapping dirty pics, and it’s giving me a huge confidence boost.

Have a date with a girl Thursday, and riding this energy who knows what might happen! Might still hook up with a fella this weekend if I strike out with her.

Do you ever do this or feel this way? I’m upfront with every guy I chat or flirt with about my bi-ness, and conditions under which we would/wouldn’t hook up. AITA?

  • MataVatnik@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I don’t do it explicitly for this reason, but the attention and compliments from men is definitely a nice respite from the absolute fucking headache that it is to date women.

  • Walt J. Rimmer@lemmy.worldM
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    1 year ago

    So long as you’re being up-front about it with everyone and you’re all on the same page, I don’t see a problem with it.

    I’m not a hook-up kind of guy, myself, so I don’t go that route with anyone. But I don’t see anything weird about it for someone who is.

  • N-E-N@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    Can definitely relate to this, but a lot of guys are kinda too forward for me, I don’t actually want dick picks immediately lol

    Kinda given up trying to find peeps and just kinda waiting and being open to possible opportunities as they arise

    • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      1 year ago

      Yeah lol you’re right. Scruff seems nice, with public profiles being sfw. Otherwise some apps you get a bunch of cocks and no faces. (oops that’s my oc here lol)