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Cake day: September 26th, 2023

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  • You and me both.

    Not too many years after that nightmare, I was perfectly capable of enjoying thru-hiking, carrrying exactly same weight anyone else would have been, moving at same speed on rough terrain, etc. Still couldn’t run a mile - or much shorter distances - in my wildest dreams. Didn’t matter, I was in exactly the shape I wanted to be in, for the things I cared about.

    Can’t do it anymore, my body widely conspired against me in various ways, but glad I was capable of it and have the memories. If I had been able to run a mile, but not hike any distance with weight, I’d be alot less happy about what I had achieved at that point.


  • Pharm tech licensing varies wiiiiidely across the states. Some require natl very, some require basically on job training IIRC.

    RPh not so much, but tech also has responsibility not to kill you with a misfill and more eyes are always good for preventing deaths.

    The shit wages they pay in relation to being responsible in part for safety and accuracy (in retail) is a big part of why most retail is dangerously understaffed.

    Same for insurance agents and real estate agents in many (most?) of US. HS, a couple weeks of “teaching to the test,” and a test is all it takes. Rote memorisation. - lots of those younger folks in insurance couldn’t define what they may/may not say/promise, or who is an “Insured” under a given policy.








  • No shade, that’s cool. IDGAF what you look like once I know you, and that you are in tune with the emotion of the situation.

    Paraphrasing a folk singer I respect here, but “I used to cry when needed, I can’t cry for the life of me anymore as an adult.”

    Tears communicate that either I’ve fucked up, or there’s something I legit misunderstood, and I need to take a step back.

    In some ways, I envy your ability to do that. Professional me doesn’t scree around, personal me rather wishes I could cry it out once in a while.

    I’ve spent a lifetime fixing my inclination to escalate at the first sign of conflict, and…. It’s been brutal. I’m thrilled to mostly be gentle these days, but it still requires work.

    You never gave into the BS.




  • While that’s getting harder - RTO vibe is strong - I’m on same page.

    I’ve had to pass on a few interesting opportunities, but Its served me well.

    If I go out, it’s because I need something that can’t be shipped or door dashed, and/or it’s imprudent to pay the vig for delivery.

    2x $4.99 bottles of wine? Yeah not paying $40 for that, I’ll take the risk.

    Working on that POV, it’s basically always worth paying the vig to minimise my human interaction.

    Edit: have WFH since c. 2012, so it makes zero sense to take the medical and driving risk to do otherwise, except for gig work in a pinch.

    Demanding hybrid (“hybrid in Arizona”) is a clear sign the company is working towards RTO, and you’d have to wave a pretty big carrot to get me to move quickly anyway. OOP max met for the year, so…

    Now that I’m $7k in on that stuff, why the hell would I make a move in May? I’ll suffer until the Sept deadline and peak season we suffer through, and then start looking.

    Well, I’ll start looking before that, demo my loyalty by pushing out start date, and go from there. Like everyone else.

    Wouldn’t cry if nothing else presents though, it’s not terrible company given that it’s non-union. Damn, I miss the CWA, but I was maybe twenty at the time and didn’t grasp the value fully.






  • I’ve only been called once, and it was quite clear to me that the evidence they expected to present was shaky and circumstantial at best.

    I took great pains to get myself excused, because I did not believe I could be impartial - ‘Not guilty’ means exactly that, the absence of proof of guilt. The state just didn’t have the goods, IMHO, and I’d have been forced to vote not guilty as a result - even if I thought the person did the thing they were accused of, the state wasn’t going to be able to prove it.

    Wasn’t feeling being the ‘debating people who don’t understand the threshold for guilty’ part.