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The rules might be considered a list of “immoral things” but in my experience it was treated more as a list of “distracting things”, YMMV.
Then why is it on the list of horrible things?
You mean the list specifically titled “precepts” ?
It does indicate that it’s a list based on what is considered “moral conduct” so i suppose it could be considered a list of “Immoral” things.
I personally read it as “Rules and Guidelines to prevent distraction during the process”.
While i don’t personally prescribe to that kind of moral absolutism i was willing to adhere to the guidelines for a short period to experience the process in it’s intended form.
Attendance isn’t mandatory so people will have to make that call for themselves if they are considering going.
The list doesn’t mention communication, and in fact specifically prohibits lying. That suggests that speacking truly is permitted,
The section titled “Noble Silence” 4 paragraphs down, specifically goes in to the details of the non-communication i was referencing.
and this is a list of bad things
Not sure what you mean here, but hopefully i’ve covered it above.
That’s a list someone makes when they don’t approve of sex (or intoxicants, but that’s another conversation).
Very possibly and i’d guess it comes from the Buddhist origins.
I will state that my experience is that it wasn’t preachy at all, the video recordings do reference some Buddhist stories/teachings but only really to use them as examples for teaching the meditation process.
Given that you aren’t supposed to be communicating in general there is very little leeway in which preaching could occur.
That “rape aside” is doing a lot of heavy lifitng there and conveniently sweeps away the need to actually address anything that isn’t the “had sex, your fault” narrative you seem to be espousing here.
Especially given that there is little to no effort being given to exemptions of any kind.
Nobody is denying that sex is how babies are (usually) made, i mean apart from the “this book is the literal truth” christians i suppose.
or you’re trolling, in which case, congratulations…i guess.