• chaotic_altruist@lemm.ee
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      15 days ago

      Seems none of the 4 signs include sexual attraction toward males and females. Would love to know what the 4 mentioned signs actually are for context

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        15 days ago

        #1 You have nipples.
        #2 You like things inside you.
        #3 You like rubbing or licking things.
        #4 You’ve said “A hole is a hole”.

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          When I was young enough to not realize this wasn’t a question for my dad (5-7ish), I asked him what “dropping the soap” meant in a prison context. He explained that mens and womens prisons don’t mix, and gave a kid friendlyish answer. I then probed further, because I was aware of gay people saying it wasn’t a choice, and didn’t get how it could sometimes be a choice.

          My dad, completely unaware of how to handle this situation said “when you’re desperate, sometimes a hole’s a hole.” It took about five years for me to understand that answer.

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      I looked it up. It’s from a deliberately “cringe” creator. The 4 things from the video are

      • you like eating
      • you like sleeping
      • you like smiling
      • you like your friends